Exotic lingerie is unique and one of a kind lingerie and is not the run of the mill sexy lingerie that you find everywhere, being worn by every woman as it is the unusual lingerie many women long to wear and men desire to see women wearing. The dictionary defines exotic as "strikingly unusual or strange in effect or appearance ". This unusual or strange in effect goes a long way to describing it. Some may refer to it as hooker lingerie or even wicked temptation lingerie as sometimes the mind has to go to some dark places to retrieve the sexual thoughts it can provoke. Who can blame a woman for looking for the strikingly unusual lingerie that she can wear and it gives her a one of a kind look.

Women, unlike men, will shop for a long time not to look the same as another woman at a party and hopefully she does not show up wearing the same blouse, skirt or other garment. It is as though that is a fashion error or something sinister about someone else wearing the same looking garment. Men on the other hand do not seem to care if another guy shows up wearing the same shirt or jeans and they may not even notice. This is not to say that a man's response to the situation is better or worse than a womans. It is not the same response, to be sure. Thus exotic equates with good or great to many women as they are wearing something that signifies her unique or individual look. A woman wants to look like one of a kind and that is a good thing. They spend enough time on buying clothing and lingerie that being seen wearing the same garment is insulting on some level. A woman might leave a gathering to change her clothing or simply be upset at this "mistake", although it is certainly not her mistake. When you are looking to wear something other women are not wearing then you do need to go out on a limb of sorts. Choose to wear kinky sex wear that puts a woman in a position that leaves her open to suggestions of an open minded sex kitten. Wearing a one of a kind garment can be difficult unless you are prepared to break the bank or take chances with the look or how sexy, revealing or suggestive it may be.