Whenever you want to experience anal stimulation and anal sex then consider anal desensitizing creams and lotions. They will reduce or eliminate this localized pain allowing you to fully appreciate the experience. Use caution to avoid putting the lotions on your penis as the lotions contain a mild analgesic which will numb your penis in the same manner as it does your anus. Don't be alarmed if some gets on the penis as it will subside in 15 to 30 minutes.