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Bachelorette parties should be great fun for all in attendance. Our tips and suggestions for a great bachelorette party are guaranteed to give the girls who show up the time of their lives, especially the bride to be.
Bachelorette parties - tips and suggestions for a great party is a guide to making a bachelorette party more fun. Bachelorette parties tips and suggestions for a great party are practical ideas on how to succeed in having a great bachelorette party. Follow our tips and suggestions for a great Bachelorette Party that no one will ever forget. Unlike bachelor parties that often turned into debauchery, drinking and carousing, bachelorette parties used to be party games like pinning clothes pins on each others dresses or skirts or some such nonsense. Since bachelorette parties often included mothers of the bride and even future mother in laws, there wasn't a lot of room for naughty goings on. Today though many women have more than one bachelorette party and one for the family and friends while the other may just be for the bride to be and her girlfriends. This is the party we want to concentrate on as it has more opportunities for fun and excitement.
The bachelorette party can be the last chance for the girl getting married to cut loose and really enjoy her last evening of "freedom". This gives everyone a chance to have a party to send her off to the world of wedded bliss. So where do you start? The most fun party will be one for the girlfriends of the bride and some carefully selected friends. Decide how large you want the party to get and now you can decide the theme. While the overall theme is a bachelorette party, the sub theme needs to be conveyed to the girls attending so they can prepare. Perhaps you are into a tropical theme with decorations, cups, plates and various tropical items you can pick up at a local party store in your area. There is no real need to spend a lot of time or money on this unless you want the theme to register strongly with the girls. Decide if you want those in attendance to dress accordingly or perhaps have inexpensive "props" for them to wear as a party favor such as grass skirts, hats or flower leis. Again this is just a suggestion of one of many themes you can have. If you plan on having a pajama or lingerie theme then you have to let the girls know well in advance and strongly suggest that all in attendance must meet the dress code. Why have a theme party as opposed to just show up, come as you are? Well mainly to make the party more memorable for the bride as well as the attendees. This is not just another party for the bride as she is getting married after all. Simply throwing her a party may be enough, but consider how much more memorable a party it will be if the guests all wear pajamas or sexy lingerie . Give her a send off worthy or her time and attention as well as yours. Don't think that just because you are giving her a party that you need to spend a lot of money as the cost is entirely up to you and you may want to ask everyone attending to donate $10.00 to $20.00 to help defray the cost of liquor and food. Remember if you were having this party at the local pub that $20.00 would go very fast indeed.
Next comes the entertainment and where the party is to be held. It is preferable to hold it at a private home or apartment rather than in a public place and a hotel is a great idea. The time and energy you save not having to clean your home or apartment is certainly worth $50.00 and not having to clean it up when you leave is worth another $100.00. That is not to say that you can leave the place looking like the scene of a crime but throwing away the cups, plates and gift wrap will be enough. You don't have to rent a suite unless you want to and you and some of the girls may want to spend the night rather than drink and drive so consider that when choosing beds and the size of the room or suite.
Entertainment can be as simple as a radio, CD player or something a little more extravagant. Assuming you are having 10-20 girls then you may want to hire a local stripper. This is going to get crazy and planning is essential. Assuming the stripper is going to get down to his man panties then ask what exactly he does when he gets nearly naked. Does he get naked? Many will and many won't depending on local ordinances and the dancer himself. Do you want him to get naked? Of course you do if you think about it. Perhaps you have seen the television programs where guys get together for a bachelor party and they were going to get a stripper and for some reason it didn't happen so they sit around talking and drinking and the party is a major flop! Don't let your party suffer the same fate so ask him to strip and inquire whether he will get totally nude and what happens when he does? No one is suggesting that wild and crazy sex will occur but talk about memorable? The following days everyone will be talking about how shocked they were when he got down to his pouch or bare ass naked. While nudity is not necessary it is a thought and one sure to make the evening. Women at Chippendale shows tend to get really wild and enjoy the spectacle of a near naked hulkster in a form fitting pouch with or without an erection. If you have enough girls, the right amount of liquor everyone will have a lot of fun. He is there to make money so tips are essential but again you determine what comes off along with the dancer. Often times the dancer will dance very suggestively with the bride to be and make her squeal with delight. Even if he stops at a thong or pouch the event can be a veritable riot. If a dancer is not to your liking then try and have some entertainment in the form of games that fit the crowd. Some traditional bachelorette/shower games can be a lot of fun but be prepared with whatever you need instead of rooting around for pencils, paper and the stuff you need to play the game. Since this is a party try to keep people occupied with some fun things to do. Perhaps part of the evening is making brownies, cookies, appetizers, exotic drinks or even hamburgers or tacos. Whatever the plan try and keep it tight and fun for everyone or risk the party going under by 9:00 pm. If the entertainment just isn't working out then certainly consider a favorite bar or bar/restaurant. While there is a loss of intimacy with everyone sitting at a long table, there is free music, easy access to quality drinks and food you will need to decide if that is the atmosphere you want for the party.
Gifts - Plan on giving sex toys as either door prizes or consider having a sex toy theme to the party. Many, many women are curious about sex toys and a bride to be needs sex toys, lingerie and other fun stuff for the bedroom or honeymoon. This is the perfect time to explore this area while making it fun for everyone. Someone, either the planner or a second go to person can coordinate the sex toys and lingerie. This is not the party to give towels, blenders, can openers to the bride to be. This is the party to give vibrators, lubricants, xxxxx rated videos and sexy panties, baby dolls and lingerie sets. Tell everyone you are keeping a master list of what people are buying and suggest what they may want to purchase. This makes it better for everyone concerned. Remember when you have been shopping for a wedding gift, shower gift or birthday gift how much you may have appreciated the gift registry. Well have a very informal gift registry and have some things she needs to have on the list!
What does the bride to be need? Glad you asked as these gifts are intended to be personal gifts for her and entertainment for the girls at the party. If you buy a set of beautiful, plush and expensive towels for the party everyone will say "how nice", those are beautiful and forget them before they hit the carpet. Buy her a rabbit vibrator and many, if not most will ask "how does it work", can I see it and the fun is beginning. Everyone, but everyone has bath towels but how many of the girls have a rabbit? The same goes for a lot of sex toys ranging from vibrators to cock rings with vibrators for her clitoris. How about a clitoral vibrator just for her private entertainment? Thought about some temporary tattoos? Be sure if you are buying any battery operated item to bring some fresh batteries and be sure they check the vibrator at the store before you leave. No sense in being disappointed at the party and making her take the vibrator back because it is defective. These sex toys are more than just gifts; they are conversation pieces as well. Buy her a glass dildo with swirls of her favorite colors inside. Every one will want to hold it and some will crack a joke or two and you are now in a good place with everyone having fun and maybe, just maybe learning something. Truth is many men and women are reluctant to go into stores that sell these products as many are dark, dirty and not female friendly. The reason sex toy parties and lingerie parties are so popular is that women can look touch and feel the products that they are curious about with no fear of who is watching them or judging them. Sex toys are the perfect gift for the bride to be and her new husband. Let's face it; sex is a large part of any relationship, particularly a newly married couple. You will probably never know how much use and appreciation these toys will bring. The list of sex toys for women is lengthy but centers around vibrators, lubricants, and other items for vaginal or clitoral stimulation. Always give lubricant, even if it is a small bottle with a vibrator as one should never use one without lube and you don't know for sure the vibe isn't going to get a workout this evening. The vibrating cock ring is a great gift as it helps him maintain an erection but more importantly vibrates against her clitoris as well so this is a gift for both the bride and groom.
Gag Gifts - These gifts are always a lot of fun and what is a gag gift is up to you. The obvious gag gifts are the penis soap on a rope, or the shot glass with a rope so she doesn't misplace it during the evening. Most gag gifts are very inexpensive and again you may want to consider buying everyone a shot glass on a rope as they are made of plastic and often have a naughty saying or terms written on them. Gag gifts are chosen to entertain, amuse and even poke fun so go ahead and get her a tiara or an apron of a naked man just for laughs but make sure she wears it all evening as you will want to have your camera phones and cameras capturing the evening's hijinks.
Sexy lingerie is an essential part of the evening's gifts and while they may not be worn that evening it is thoughtful to make a purchase that will be worn, at least once. Lingerie is like most clothing in that you can purchase very cheap to very expensive lingerie and only your pocket book will tell you what you can and want to afford. Consider purchasing panties, as long as you know her size generally or purchase one size fits most as many lingerie items are sold in one size for missy and one size for plus size. Sexy panties will get worn, are relatively inexpensive and every girl and her man love how she looks in sexy panties. Try and stay away from the run of the mill sleepwear like pajamas, chemises and robes. If she wants them she can buy them herself. Encourage her to look sexy for her husband to be and they will both thank you for it. If the party is one where her mother and mother in law as well as aunts will be in attendance you may want to consider buying her "safe" gifts as everyone will see her open it and you may not want to be the girl who gave her crotch less panties as they might not appreciate the suggestive nature of the gift. So what do you buy in that case? Many sex toys are not really about sex but about romance and every mother and mother in law can relate to that. Massage oils are always appreciated just don't buy her those jelly like eggs that you put in the bath and they dissolve making soap bubbles. Some sexy lingerie is appropriate particularly if the colors are feminine and cute, like baby dolls and bra and panty sets. Every woman understands that other women wear lingerie but not everyone is into the trashy stuff that are kept hidden from view at all times that her husband bought her coming out of the strip club downtown. There is a time and place for everything, you decide.
Food - If you are having this soiree in a bar or bar/restaurant you still want to think about the food. It is never a good idea to drink on an empty stomach. Consider ordering some chips and salsa, nachos or light appetizers, maybe a couple of pizzas. Nothing fancy as the cost can skyrocket. Perhaps the bar has a vegetable platter with a dipping sauce or ask if the bar minds if you bring in a meat and cheese tray. While likely not, it is worth a try if you are offering 15 girls drinking in return. At a private residence then buy that cheese, meat or sandwich extravaganza or heat up some meatballs, dips with chips or whatever. Again getting tipsy and risking a DWI or worse is just not worth the risk.
With a minimum of planning, investment and time you can have a fun party for the bachelorette. As always consider the guest of honor when deciding where to hold the party, what type of food and particularly what kind of entertainment to have. If she doesn't drink and holds strong religious values then forget the booze, bar and stripper. You can still have fun but it make take a little more planning. Regardless of the constraints bachelorette parties are a great way to mark her upcoming wedding and getting her girlfriends together to have some good, clean fun without the guys around. Some suggest that inviting the men to the party is a good idea and while every party can be fun, the dynamics change with more testosterone is involved. A fun time can be had with men invited but most of the ideas will need some tinkering. I suggest that this be a female party only and the next party can be a spouse, boyfriend affair and it might even be more fun. I doubt it but is it a good reason to have another party and find out for yourselves.
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